Dynamic9talks 11/22/2020
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Today's man can not be compared to man of 19th century and below. They have lost the meaning in them of being a man. They are like a glass of water with no water in it. The most prized thing is not the glass but the water in the glass, although the glass is necessary.
Why men, what happened to men to get to this point. Why are men loosing the bedroom battlefield, what is happening?
What is it they are doing wrong? What is it their grandparents and great grandparents used to that they are not doing. What is it the are doing that is not right? There must be something wrong or something new they are doing that is the cause of all this we are getting.
I had to find out why men of today can't even marry more than one wife, some of them are even afraid to even get married. It must be something serious.
In the process of doing my research, I got this two reasons and I thought could share with you. Here are the two reasons;
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1. Lifestyle
Today's lifestyle is completely different from the one older people used to live. It is even worse than is used to be. All this is due to science and technology.
How? Men are into sedentary lifestyle, today a person can't walk more than 3km, he feels it is like a punishment. Any short distance, they will take a motorbike or a vehicle.
Family has been mechanised, no more manual ploughing of the farm.
Foods are hurriedly, no one wants to take long waiting for food. Meat preparation was a process, the mean was to be left hunging over a fire place for days to drain all water in it before cooking or roasting and even the process took time it is even the way it was cooked or roasted was different.
Today we literally eat raw meat, this is how we began to loose the bedroom battle.
We need to change eat healthy foods, exercise more and be happy always.
2. Pressure
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We are living in a very competitive world today. The society has put alot of demands on men. This puts men under pressure, stress and some even get I into depression.
With social media where people are living a borrowed life, which does not reflect their real life, puts pressure on other people who are not aware of the reality on the ground. Some men start to feel inferior to others, and even their wives put unnecessary pressure on them to live a lifestyle they can't afford.
This blows men off leading to self-pity, low self esteem and even worse depression. The is the genesis of men loosing it in the bedroom. Will you think of bedroom matters or how to make it in life? It is sad, it is not like they do it intentionally, the circumstances surrounding them pushes them in the direction, to appoint they loose it,not interest. God help men.
