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The Right And Responsible Things For Husband "To Do"

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How should a husband treat his wife? It depends on the mood, and how you both feel about it. You are going to be the only person in the world with whom she will share her deepest desires and wildest fantasies. 

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Always hear them and respect her likes, dislikes and choices, This is the secret to becoming a good lover.

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You will always have your own unique set of wants and desires. If your wife does not think the same or declines them, do not get mad. 

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She is your wife, not your slave, therefore you will have to respect her opinion on the matter, and whether she’s ‘in the mood’ at the moment or not.

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If she talks about a fantasy of hers, do not make a disgusted face or laugh at her. She trusts you and that’s the reason she shared it with you. 

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As a husband, you must appreciate what she thinks, and do whatever it is in your capacity to fulfill them, as long as you’re cool with it. If it’s not your thing, you can say no too.

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Privacy is a big part of knowing how should a husband treat his wife. Just because she is your wife does not mean it is ‘okay’ to open her closet and sift through her items, unless you know she’s cool with it. 

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Sometimes, not enough privacy ruins intimacy, so keep that in mind. Marriage is not about being together but also about trusting each other enough to give each other some privacy.

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Always take her permission before you open her wardrobe, or when you need something from her purse or just want to use her phone. She may find it silly but deep down she will love your gesture of respect towards her privacy. 

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If she plans to go out with her friends on a weekend, let her do so. Giving each other some breathing space is the best way to cultivate strong trust in the relationship.

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Do not barge into the room when she has half-shut the door (yes, many husbands do that). Knock at the door and enter. Give her some privacy. 

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If she says she plans to spend her weekend with some friends, instead of getting mad, let her have her own private time. Eventually, you will realise that the moments you spend away from each other are the moments when your love blossoms the most.


When we’re talking about how should a husband treat his wife, it is needless to say, and very obvious that intimidation, and being pushy, whether physical or mental, is an absolute contempt of your spouse’s feelings and emotions. You will surely drag your marriage down the drain by doing so.

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If you ever get mad at her, do not react immediately. Instead, it’s better to stay quiet for few minutes and then address the situation. You are an adult, and you need to behave like one by sorting out your problems together and reaching a mutual conclusion.

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Just because you are the man of the house does not mean you have to be a tyrant dictator whom your wife is supposed to serve round the clock. 

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Like I said earlier, you both are equals, and being a man does not give you any additional powers. Respect her for whatever she is and you will eventually draw the maximum satisfaction from you marriage.

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Top Comments
GwinGodson_01 · 06/28/2020
I disagree with almost everything you are saying please, no privacy in marriage, spending time away from our home with friends, married friends or unmarried ones? marriage is not friendship, all this right you ladies drag is one of the reasons you have been single for so long, we are blacks with curture, we must not do whatever the white does.
Oyemste · 06/27/2020
Good, may your wisdom increase, for your enlighten bless you dear:
AminuIsah_30 · 06/27/2020
Your idea accepted
GeorgeRobert_03 · 06/27/2020
This is nothing but selfish & self defense from ladies

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