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6 Types of Friends You Must Avoid If You Want To Make It In Life.

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Friendship is a very beautiful thing. Many people can boast of special people in their lives especially when they grew together as childhood paddies. But there are those friends whom you're better off not having in your life. Let's take a look at them;

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1. A Procrastinator: Like the saying goes; "Procrastination is the thief of time". The greatest enemy of success is Procrastination. It is very advisable to devoid yourself of friends who like procrastinating because they never get anything done. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

Procrastinators can have bigger dreams and yet they never have the urge to bring it to live. We could say, "They are dreamers but never actors". They are always rescheduling today's plans for tomorrow and they can be very addictive. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

If you want to attain success in life, then keep away from people who love to procrastinate. Apart from they doing this act themselves, they encourage and influence people around them to tone equal line. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

This means that in time you could also be living their lifestyle as well and before you realize, your dreams of success will gradually die out. In short, "they are LAZY".


2. A selfish friend: These types of friends are serious initiative killers. They only think of themselves and never your welfare. They never think the best for you except when it benefits them. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

It is very important to stay away or cut relationship with such friends if you want to make it in life. When you have the opportunity to move forward especially when it puts you above them, they'll go every extra mile to stop you from achieving it. They can dissuade you from the right path and if that fails then they will resort to backbiting. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

The most dangerous part of having a selfish person as a friend is that, they are very perfect at pretending and wining your trust to share your plans with them. They can be very available to offer shoulders in times when you need comfort but it is only to their benefit. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

If you want to succeed in life, stay away from such friends because they pose a threat to your success. In short, they're DREAM KILLERS".


3. A Jealous Friend: Jealousy is a great evil deed and can lead to destruction. Jealousy has destroyed many great people. If you have a friend who constantly shows jealousy to everything you do, run for your life.

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A jealous friend never wants you to achieve anything good. They wish everything goes their way and to their benefit. When you get an opportunity to excel, they go behind you and destroy you to your benefactors. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

The most dangerous thing about them is that they are hardly to spot. They can pretend show to show you love and encouragement but in your blind side, they will be backbiting you. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

View pictures in App save up to 80% data. In addition, a Jealous friend never appreciate anything you do. They always find fault with you. When you own something they do not have but want, they will trash talk about it to make you feel inferior. As long as you're with a jealous friend, you will always feel inferior and not good enough. No matter how much you show them love, no matter what you sacrifice for them, they never see it as enough for them. In short, they are "SOUL KILLERS".


4. A Negative Minded: This kind of friend never supports anything positive. They are always negative and never believe in you. They look down on you and treat you as "good for nothing". They behave as though without them you cannot survive. View pictures in App save up to 80% data. Whenever you have an idea or a dream that will push you forward in life, because they do not believe in you, they will do everything they can to push you away from your goal with their negative and discouraging words, making you believe you cannot make it. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

As long as you're with a negative minded person you will never have faith in yourself. And trust me, without confidence in yourself, you cannot take risk, without risk, your dreams die and then you can say goodbye to your dreams. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

One dangerous thing about negative minded persons is that they will always pull you along into the dark side of life. When they're engaged in deviancy, they will convince you so much to tow along the same lines. In short they are "CONFIDENCE DESTROYERS".


5. A Pilfer: The greatest good you can do to yourself is to stay away from such a friend. A thief is someone who is never tolerated in society and everyone pushes them away. View pictures in App save up to 80% data. The saying goes "SHOW ME YOUR FRIEND.....AND I WILL SHOW YOU YOUR CHARACTER". Apart from society irking the thief, it hates the thief's friend even as same. If you're related to a thief, you are considered one too. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

If you really want to succeed in life, you must stay away from friends who pilfer this is because society sees the friend of a thief also as a thief and nobody gives an opportunity to a thief. Without opportunities, you may be stuck at the same place for all your life and you can also say goodbye to your dreams forever. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

Another saying goes; "A BAD FRIEND...... CORRUPTS GOOD CHARACTER". This means as long as you're closely related to a thief, understand that, even if you're not one, people hardly trust you. They always suspect you of evil intentions even when you mean well. In short, they are "A STUMBLING BLOCK TO YOUR DREAMS".


6. A Pliable: A Pliable person is one that is easily influenced or bended by another person's will. Such people you must avoid. They cannot make decisions for themselves and when they make decisions, they can be easily swayed from their purpose. Pliable people are very disloyal. This is because they follow the sweet talker or only what they believe is in their benefit and cannot stay with you for long. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

A Pliable person will easily betray all your secret when the factors are unfavorable to him as compared to what he is been offered to betray or turn his back on you. Pliable persons can be very deceptive in their nature. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

They can be very "loyal" to you, sometimes even for years until they see a better option than you, then all their loyalty to you goes down the drains. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

To identify a Pliable person, look out for the friends who can hardly make decisions for themselves. They are always wavering and cannot stand by what they say. View pictures in App save up to 80% data.

They decide today but immediately someone makes a different suggestion, they throw everything away and blindly follow them. In short, they are "UNPREDICTABLE".

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Top Comments
RejoiceKOfori · 06/26/2020
it's very important to know your friends oo. The way some friends can pretend eh, only God will help us.
yaw_nyarko_addae · 06/29/2020
very good educative thanks a lot
NanaKojo_22 · 06/27/2020
very true
AmaDivine_01 · 06/27/2020
that's true thanks

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